Tag: mindset

When the door flings open on your cable car…

cable car
📷chuttersnap

In the late 1970s I rode the cable car/skyway at the Sydney Royal Easter Show with my family.

This ride was like no other that I experienced as, shortly after we left one side, the door flung open and remained open until we reached the other side! For those who rode it, you will remember it was a long trip especially with the constant pauses to let everyone off.

So leading into 2019 and reflecting on what was modeled in that cable car, here are three thoughts that I know will add value to your 2019

1. High emotion = low intelligence.

It doesn’t mean you’re a dope. It means that the more we get worked up the more likely we sabotage our intellectual faculties. Problem solving and decision making flourishes with cool heads. This is my fond recollection of my father that day and other scenarios like when I was riding a horse that lost it bridle at full gallop. This leads me to the next one…

2. Who you ride with matters.

The power of association determines what condition you end up at the other side.

My father was sitting opposite me and my Mum was to my right. The door was on mine and my father’s side. He simply put his foot up on my seat and his leg formed a bar across the doorway. He told me to stay seated and enjoy the view. Inner circle audits are crucial and year end reviews are another perfect time for this.

Who is riding in the car with you?

3. Celebrate all wins.

Some take great pleasure that you looked likely to fall.
Some only want to know you when it seems you are “on top”.
Others laugh AND cry with you.

Growth Consciousness

butterfly

Growth consciousness focuses on the journey rather than just the immediate goal.

“The greatest leaders are those who never consider themselves the finished article”

– my mentor Christian Simpson

Do you want
comfort ,
a challenge
or change ?

Growth is in the stretch.

The transformational journey is lifelong.

📷 Ye Fung Tchen

F.O.C.U.S.

F. O. C. U. S.

Fixed Ocular Command Underpinning Success.

FIXED

My determination of where I am going is fixed. How I get there is not.
“Be stubborn about the vision, be flexible with your plan”
– John Maxwell.
Is my focus monomaniacal?
Would friends call it an all consuming obsession?
Crazed maybe?

OCULAR

Seeing with my eyes and my imagination.

Seeing where I want to go with the knowledge of having seen where I already am and most importantly seeing who I am.

“You will never outperform your own self image”
– Maxwell Maltz
COMMAND
“Discipline equals freedom”
– Jocko Willink
Am I following up my intent with corresponding action?
Are my activities moving me closer to what I want to accomplish?
(UNDERPINNING) SUCCESS
“When I’m old, how much would I be willing to pay to travel back in time and relive the moment that I’m experiencing right now?”
– Muneeb Ali
Is my definition of success clearly written out?
Not my parents’. Not my spouse’. Mine.
Not sure?
Here’s a start…
Is it simply goal getting?
Fulfilment?
Significance?
Legacy?
How will it feel?
What will it look like?
Who will it impact?
IMG_6860
📷: Danny Feng
F. O. C. U. S.
Fixed Ocular Command Underpinning Success.

 

The Law of Intentionality

Let’s consider Law #1 of my mentor John C. Maxwell’s “15 Invaluable Laws of Growth”The Law of Intentionality

“Growth doesn’t just happen”

IMG_6643

📷: Aaron Burden

I agree with John that working hard doesn’t guarantee success and hope is not a strategy.

So what may be holding us back from how intentional we need to be?

Our beliefs drive our behaviour.

We may have some mistaken or hidden beliefs that are holding us back.

Participants of my mastermind group studying these 15 Laws of John’s become aware of these growth gap traps that can keep us from growing and reaching our potential.

Contact me to learn more about my 15 Laws of Growth Mastermind groups.

https://bit.ly/2PR29gA

Setting My Mind On My Mindset

Mindset def. the established set of attitudes held by someone.

Previously, I suggested that “thinking is creative whether I think about what I’m thinking or not.” (Leadershift: Thoughts About Thoughts)

Am I intentional about my thinking?

There will never be the perfect weather to start thinking about thinking.

Today is the day.

In this 1 min 18 second clip below, my mentor and friend John C. Maxwell shares a thought about the word “Intentional”

What do I set my mind on?

Is my thinking in harmony with the person that I want to become?

Is my thinking in harmony with the things that I want to do?

Is my thinking in harmony with the things that I want to have?

Do I know what I desire? Can I clearly articulate it to another?

Do I schedule time to contemplate?

Do I echo my haters, bullies and critics?  “I am…” statements are potent.

Where your focus goes, your energy flows – Ralph Waldo Emerson

photo-1462062651745-495db7fa268a

Photo by Hunter Bryant on Unsplash

What seems impossible is unfamiliar

One of the most important conversations that I will have today will be between my own ears.

The belief stronghold of “impossibility” is worth exploring.

Impossible def. hasn’t occurred, existed, or been done YET. The unfamiliar.

photo-nic-co-uk-nic-224385

photo-nic.co.uk nic

 

“Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”

Muhammad Ali

I don’t know about you but I never imagined a day where the following were reality:

Australians perform first “dead heart” transplants

Uber Elevate could offer flying ride service in the next 3 years!!

3D printing

On the outside, it seems that we are living as The Jetsons and advances are snowballing faster than ever before.

If impossibility is potential, what am I willing to investigate in the “rules” that I have created inside my own head?

What seems impossible is unfamiliar.